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Archive for the ‘Articles’ Category

23
Sep

Recovering from Divorce: Honoring the Truth

By Shelley Stile

Do you remember the old adage that states there’s your side, there’s my side and then there’s the truth?  If we were totally honest with ourselves, we too could see the truth of any situation.  Once we accept that truth, we have the newfound freedom to gain clarity, d Continue reading,,


Sep

The Real Divorce: Cutting the Emotional Ties that Bind

by Shelley Stile 

Your divorce decree is only step one in moving into a new life after divorce.  The real divorce is the cutting of the emotional, mental and physical ties that still bind you to your ex-husband.  This is the real work of divorce recovery: becoming a single woman possessed Continue reading,,


Sep

Divorce Recovery: Releasing the Toxic Emotions

Shelley Stile
Life Coach/Divorce Recovery for Women

The way to recover and thrive after divorce is simple: Until you can release the toxic emotions surrounding your divorce, it is impossible for you to move forward in life and be happy.  It takes enormous commitment and effor Continue reading,,

22
Sep

Divorce and Bankruptcy

In these troubled economic times, more and more people are turning to the protection of the U.S. Bankruptcy Code to resolve their debts and protect their property from foreclosure and repossession.

More than 1 million people filed bankr Continue reading,,

21
Sep

PARENTING TIME

Parenting time is the number of overnights that each parent has with the child or children as the result of a divorce action or a paternity action.  It is based upon the Child Custody Act, and the same factors that are reviewed by the courts in determining child custody, are also looked at with reg Continue reading,,

31
Oct

Insurance Concerns When You Divorce

If you are getting a divorce from your spouse, you have a lot of planning to do. You will need to name your own beneficiaries, organize your divided assets, and set up your individual estate.

It is important that you meet with a qualified attorney to discuss the specifics of planning your est Continue reading,,

30
Oct

I'm Getting A Divorce: Does Mediation Really Work?

As a divorce mediation attorney in Walnut Creek, CA who has been practicing mediation for nearly 25 years, I’ve been at the forefront of a process that has now become very commonplace.

Mediation for divorce is now a commonly accepted practice for good reason. It works. Not only does it Continue reading,,

15
Oct

Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS)

Divorce can be messy not just in terms of monetary compensation or dividing of property but also in terms of the relationship between the parents and the children because of a disorder called parental alienation Continue reading,,

04
Oct

Considering Divorce? You Need an Exit Plan!

By Nancy Fagan, www.TheDivorceHelpClinic.com™

Considering leaving your spouse? You need a solid exit plan. Pre-divorce planning involves carefully planning out often-overlooked aspects of your life before you announce you’re leaving. In 85 percent of divorces, it is the wife who initi Continue reading,,

03
Oct

How To Break The News Of Divorce To Your Kids

Divorce can be a traumatic experience for your children. No matter how old they are, the divorce will be hard for them to understand and eventually to accept. Some children in fact harbor hopes that their parents will get back together even after several years of living apart.

Many children f Continue reading,,

02
Oct

Parenting After Divorce

1. Tell your children the truth, with simple explanations. Tell them where the other parent is.

2. Don’t bring up grievances or speaking derogatorily about the other parent to or in front of your children.

3. Don’t discuss financial, legal or other disputes with your childr Continue reading,,


Oct

Divorce – A Transformation Process

The emotional unbonding that can occur during divorce is the cornerstone for transformation and is my focus. The task of emotional separation involves unbonding romantic and dependent aspects of the relationship, and mourning. This is the stage where growth and transformation unfold. It includes dis Continue reading,,

01
Oct

Do I Need a Divorce Lawyer If My Spouse Moved Out More Than Five Years Ago?

If you’ve been separated from your spouse for over five years and have still not divorced, you may still want to consult an attorney so that you are not surprised or taken aback by anything in the divorce agreement. This is not an uncommon situation, as some couples may choose not to get divor Continue reading,,

29
Sep

Selling a Wedding Ring – When is the Best Time

Selling a wedding ring is not a difficult task provided you are timing is right. Wedding happens throughout the year and you just need to spot the right time, so that you get the best value for your product. The jewelry mark Continue reading,,

28
Sep

The Fundamentals for Selecting Reputable New York Divorce Law Firms

You will need the services of a New York divorce law firm if you are seeking a divorce in New York. Certainly, the kind of divorce law firm you hire will greatly determine the outcome of your case. This is because a good divorce law firm provides a group of competent lawyers, paralegals and clerical Continue reading,,

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